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When talking about sex, fingering is often written off as something reserved for horny high schoolers or something you should “just know” how to do. In reality, fingering someone can be difficult. But that’s also what makes it fun. The 10 best finger vibrators on the market will certainly amplify your experience.
“I think many would consider it a bit on the juvenile side… fingering is ‘petting’ or foreplay rather than sex,” says Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibes in San Francisco. “Which is really too bad, because when it’s done well, fingering is glorious, and whether or not penile/vaginal sex is on the menu, it can be an extremely effective and erotic experience.”
Every sensation matters when you’re fingering someone. The speed of your movements, the temperature of your hands, and the feel of your skin can all alter the experience. Even if you’re with the same partner, every session is a chance to uncover a new type of pleasure. But if fingering can be awesome by itself, why introduce sex toys into the mix? Queen points out three main reasons: To change texture, to add vibration, and to enable a different experience with penetration.
“These will all be relevant questions for the recipient,” she explains. “Maybe they aren’t that into vibration or maybe they only come with a vibrator, for instance. Regarding penetration, a toy can add both length and girth, as well as texture.”
Using these reasons as a guide, we composed a list of high-quality, fingering-focused sex toys. Many of these products are essentially bullet vibrators fascinated in various ways to your hand. Some have built-in tethers to latch the device to the base of your finger. Others transform your fingers into a vibrating dildo when you thrust them into a sleeve. We even found a vibe that lets you finger your partner remotely.
While these products tend to be marketed toward vulvas, most work well for any fingering adventure, regardless of hole or relationship composition. They can also all be used solo or with a partner and vary in price and style.
Wet For Her Two Finger Extender

No surprise that a company created by lesbians delivers when it comes to fingering. Wet For Her’s Two Finger Extender slides over two fingers, adding nearly 12 centimeters of insertable length. It’s the only one on this list without a motor, but the ergonomic design allows you to add depth without sacrificing control.
“Useful if the penetrating partner’s fingers aren’t long enough—such that the receiving partner wants more. This toy will also be thicker than two fingers, since it fits over two fingers,” Queen adds.
Eve’s Toys Bang Her Finger Vibe

Maybe the most comfortable option on the list is the Bang Her Finger Vibe, a textured silicone sleeve with stretchy loops designed to cling to one finger. With various nubs and ridges, this pink vibrator adds intensity to anything but anal play.
“For a user who enjoys G-spot vibration, this one could be enjoyable,” says Queen. “I suspect that withdrawing it could cause the toy to slide off the user’s finger, so that might be something to watch out for.”
Dame Fin Finger Vibrator

Made for all types of play, Fin from Dame Products is an intuitive finger vibrator you can wear how you want. It comes with a removable tether that fits around the base of your fingers, or you can pinch the medical-grade silicone base between two fingers. The buzzy vibe offers three intensity levels and is available in three colors.
“This is a nice design—likely to be stable when worn, some surface area to enjoy, multiple functions to explore,” Queen notes.
Hot Octopuss DiGiT Finger Vibrator

Described by Hot Octopuss as the “most beautiful and ergonomic sex toy yet,” DiGiT is a versatile finger vibrator sculpted to match the curve of your fingers. Its rumbly motor offers five speeds and five vibration modes. The sleek, “one size fits most” flexible finger grip sets DiGiT apart, almost looking like jewelry.
Queen adds: “Rumbly vibrations from a fairly small vibrator—a keeper!”
Lovense Flexer

Can’t be with your partner in person? You can still finger them remotely thanks to the Flexer from Lovense. The wearable, Bluetooth-connected vibrator can be controlled through the Lovense app. Imagine an interface with a trackpad-like surface where you can move your fingers in rhythm, and Flexer will pulse and squeeze simultaneously.
“This is interesting—not a finger vibe per se, but designed to behave like enhanced fingers,” Queen says.
MysteryVibe Poco G-Spot Vibrator

Intended to mimic your fingers so you can focus on other things, MysteryVibe’s Poco is a bendable bullet vibrator that provides precise stimulation through a “come-hither stroking motion.” It adapts to your body and comes equipped with two motors that are programmable through the MysteryVibe app.
Poco falls under the same category as the Flexer: Not your classic finger vibe, but rather technology designed to reimagine fingers completely.
B Swish BTeased Finger Vibrator

One of the most affordable options on the list at only $12, BTeased from B Swish is similar to other finger vibes, with one exception. The included bullet vibrator can be removed from the body-safe grip, letting you slide in another similar-sized vibe.
“Cute and basic! Some fingers might be too slender for the open-sized finger curve (I wouldn’t use it for penetration), but this is a nice design for adding external vibrations,” says Queen.
VeDO Yumi Rechargeable Finger Vibe

Autostraddle wrote that using VeDO’s Yumi can “best be described as playing Ouija board with my pussy,” and that’s so accurate. Tuck the device between your index and middle fingers, glide it over your body, and experiment with the 10 vibration modes or pinpoint pleasure via the carved nub.
Similar to the Marvelous Massager, Queen suggests that size is also an advantage for this toy—as long as the logistics of holding it don’t distract from the experience.
VeDO Yumi Rechargeable Finger Vibe
$45.99
CalExotics Mini Marvels Silicone Marvelous Massager

The CalExotics Marvelous Massager is unique in many ways. It’s orange, which is extremely rare for sex toys. In theory, the “clam-shaped” form also requires less active tension to hold the toy in place, allowing you to focus more on your movements. On top of that, it’s completely waterproof and offers 10 vibration functions.
“While this one looks like it might take some focus to hold and would make the experience potentially more about the vibrator than the fingers, the advantage of this toy is its size,” says Queen. “It can stimulate pretty much the entire vulva, while most of the others won’t do that level of coverage.”
Screaming O You-Turn™ 2 Finger Fun Vibe

Most existing products place something between your finger and your partner’s body, but not Screaming O’s You-Turn™ 2. The unique design latches around the base of your fingers and stimulates the clitoris while leaving your fingers bare for penetration. In the moment, you can also use your thumb to adjust the motor’s position.
“This is a great design for G-spot play of the kind that involves the fingers being inserted, the vibe staying external,” explains Queen. “The little ‘tongue’ protrusion looks like it would cup the clitoris and definitely add to the experience.”
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